As anyone would imagine, I’m more of a “mind over matter” guy…
Now here’s my thesis for today:
Your parents had a say in the outcome of your gender. Maybe one day, this theory will be proven but I believe that if as a parent, your baby didn’t come out as the gender you wished for, it’s because your partner didn’t want it at all. Sometimes, you might get what you wished for even if your partner was inclining more to the opposite, it is because s(he) was at least open to it. I want to call this the “more-than-%70 effector”. This basically means that if your desire to bear say, a boy, is at least 70%, it is strong enough to dominate at least its 100% complement of your partner’s desire. For example:
If you say you have 80% desire,
